Sore egos and jaws

The truth is that women are not as strong as men and never can be. The other truth is that my husband forgets this fact when we practice judo together and likes to accidently punch and knee me in the face.

Why can't I just let them win if they are going to and wait until I have a real chance to use my judo and then and only then show my true strength.

I need to go to yoga...I am feeling so uncentered.